Dating Sexy Chicks

Don’t Say This!

What are You Wearing!- Never, ever ask if that is what they, he or she, is wearing when going out with you. Hopefully they are trying to dress to impress you and think what they have on is OK to wear to the event you have planned. Leave it as such. Such a question can be safely asked only after the 3th to 5th date.  
 

What is That Smell!. - For your first 3 dates, at a minimum, everything smells great. Perfumes and colognes are not too harsh, strong or overwhelming when worn by your date. They are always just right or maybe even “a little subtle” is your answer if asked. Pungent, rude and even disgusting odors are the same. You don’t mention them unless they are pointed out to you, unless the bad odor may seem to come from you, then a small “Ugh” is acceptable, just so you can show that the odor comes from elsewhere. You don’t want to seem to be a gassy person, do you?
 
 
 When meeting people in a crowd of strangers at a party or social gathering that your date has taken you to never comment negatively about anyone there. You may never know who might be a well-thought of friend, ex-romance partner or supervisor, and if you want to get to the next date, everyone there is a great person and could be your next best friend or traveling buddy. Believe us, it’s one of the ways to not offend your date about his/her lifestyle before dating you. And if you fail here you might as well throw out their phone number and email address too.
 
 
 You Drive Like a Nut Bag!. Never, not ever. Don’t do it. Maybe, years after you’ve married him/her, you can (in an off-hand kind of way) mention that they should drive a little more, or a little less, aggressively. But never during the time you are dating. This is a best bet to start a fight.
 
 
 Your Place Is a Mess!- Cleanliness may be next to Godliness but life is messy. If you start talking about the poor condition they keep their apartment, house, condominium or any other type of residence that they live in, be prepared to be “washed right out of their hair!” It’s is sometimes OK to show your disapproval by tidying up a pile of magazines or newspapers, but to say, “Geesh, you sure are messy” or anything to that effect, you will put yourself onto the path on singleness once again. Guaranteed. You are now (possibly) a couple and it takes two people to keep something clean to both of yours’ satisfaction. So, unless you’re cleaning, you’re making a mess, no matter what. And until you’re staying the night, stay away from the “messy” topics of living.